Blessings from our home…

September 25, 2009

I’m sorry

Dear Anak,

I’m sorry for not sticking on our schedule recently. I have been pre occupied with so many things. I’m sorry too for sometimes I can’t help but get easily irritated when you interrupt me every time I am in the middle of my busy-ness. It dawned on me that everytime you act like that, it means you need attention– my full attention– and that I must be aware and enjoy your childhood for it only comes once.

Everytime you noticed my anger, you would easily say “I’m Sorry Mommy. Di ko na po yun ulitin”. And that makes me like a melted candle and hugged you and say “it’s okay son. I’m teaching you now while you are young so when you grow up, you will be a responsible citizen”. And you would reply “Opo Mommy”.

You know what made me write this ? Because I just watched a very beautiful video about a father and a son. The father is already gray haired and the son is around 40’s. They were both seated on the bench outside their house and the father asked the son “what was that?” after he heard the sound of the sparrow. The son answered “it’s a sparrow”, but when the father asked again for the 3rd time, the son lost his temper and shouted back at his father “I already said its a sparrow!!”. Then the father stood up, went inside the house and when he came back, he brought with him a small notebook. He handed it to his son and told his son to read it aloud. It says something like ” today, my son turned 3. We were at the park when he asked me “what is that? and i said “a sparrow”. He asked me that same question for 21 times and I never got tired of answering him 21 times. I even hugged him every time I answered.”

I almost cried after viewing it. I felt guilty for being hot tempered sometimes. From now on, I will only ENJOY and MAXIMIZE my time with you. Your questions I will now listen with full attention and treat each moment with you a blessing that not all mothers could have. I am so proud having a son like you. And thank you for learning first time obedience, even if it’s a bit difficult to really instill it in you, but I will never get tired of teaching you until you will fully learn.

We went to the BIR office the other day and today and you surprised me again when as soon as we got inside the building, you headed to the lounge and looked for a vacant seat. You were able to find one and joined the rest of the people in watching TV. When you came to me, I asked what was the show all about and why the people were laughing. You said ” Mr. Bean po mommy”. I’m shocked that even you know Mr Bean! How come? hahaha… And a lady in front of me said ” Anak mo yan? Ilang taon? Behave sya masyado no?”. She made that comment after she saw you just sitting there and waiting for me.

It’s a joy to hear compliments like that. Keep up the good work my dear.

I love you so much!

mommy

September 15, 2009

More questions from you

Dear Anak,

I forgot to write here than we were on our way to the airport the other day when out of the blue, you just asked me “Mommy, bakit tumatakbo ang jeep?. I said “kasi may makina sya. yun nagpapatakbo sa kanya”. And then I added “tanong mo kay daddy pag nag usap kayo” hahahaha

Di kinaya ng powers ko ang tanong mo. When I relayed it to dad, he said I should explain the combustion engine theory so you will understand. I thought to myself, waaahhhaaattt?? hahaha. Better, dad will explain to you soon.

Last night, before going to sleep, we called daddy and you made us laugh when you were singing “magsakay kami ng eroplano. Magpunta kami sa airport. Lagi na lang ganito ang buhay natin….” then continued singing the Tayong Dalaw lyrics hahahaha.. You’ve mixed it up boy! WAAHHH!! By the way, we already bought some gifts for Christmas yesterday. It’s so nice to look at it now under the tree. And for the record, finally, you were able to try SM’s train after few failed attempts on our past visits due to mechanical problems. It was a great date yesterday! Thank you for behaving and participating.

And yesterday too, you were able to answer MAZES in your activity book. You were so hooked in it that I decided to brought you a book on mazes which was on sale at NBC. Great to see your answers. Way to go!

Today (Sep 15 2009) you got sick. I don’t know why. Lolo B brought some tawa-tawa for you to drink. I hope you will feel better soon. Get well soon dear.

Love,
Mommy

September 13, 2009

Never say never…

Hi Anak!

We went to BIR office along Torres last Friday, Sep 11, 2009. We were in a hurry since it was past 4pm already. We took the tricycle that could squeeze in 10 or 12 passengers. I remember that same kind of tricycle which we usually took when my grandmother would bring me to Agdao in the 80’s. Anyway, back to our travel, it was just a minute or less travel to BIR office from the tricycle terminal. When we arrived at our destination, you made another smart surprise when you looked at the tricycle and asked me with amazement and seriousness in your eyes: ” Ay, mommy tricycle po pala yung sinakyan natin? Ginawa man nilang jeep!”. You made me laugh out loud. Your are very observant, very much like dad. Good job my dear little angel. Keep your observations coming and I’ll just be right here listening and ready to burst into laughter when needed. Hehehe…

And why is the title of the post never say never? Because when I made this post, we just finished viewing the speech of Michael Jordan after he was included in the Basketball’s Hall of Fame. And I just like what he said ” “One day you might look up and see me playing a game at 50,” he said. “Don’t laugh. Never say never, because limits, like fears, are often just an illusion.”

Again, Never say never, because limits, like fears, are often just an illusion. May you remember that when the time comes when you feel doubt or discourage. :)

Oh, today, September 13 2009 I also discovered the first homeschool in the Philippines since 1999. I am so excited that things are getting clearer and more precise now. Thanks God for this discovery. The school’s name is The Master’s Academy. And I learned that it’s okay to homeschool on our own without getting a curriculum (of course I have to make sure that you will learn the basics and the equivalent lessons for your stage) and then just take a PVT or Philippine Validation Test to see what level you will qualify once we decided to put you on a regular school later. It’s liberating indeed to know that there is nothing wrong with the lessons and information that I am currently teaching you.

Speaking of lessons, you just love to study the solar system recently. Earth and all there is are you latest lessons. But of course your all time favorite Airplanes and Trains are always part of our daily activities. We also had a kitchen time today. I brought you to the kitchen and cooked tinolang isda (maliliit na moro-moro or in tagalog galonggong). We had malunggay, kamatis and sibuyas dahon with it and a teaspoon of salt. Yummy lunch for a beautiful Sunday!

Back to Michael Jordan, here is the video of his talk that we both watched.


Love you my dear!
Mommy

August 30, 2009

Train up ac hild….

Dear Anak,

For one week now, we are on “training” again. I noticed that the Baby Wise learning you had when you were younger (infant to 1yr old) is slowly fading. Not that you’re becoming really “pasaway”, but it’s in the bible that a child can be foolish, if not trained. Now, I am not saying you are one but Daddy and I agreed that the best inheritance we can passed on to you is building your character. And the best time to start is now, while you are still young and your heart is still very much open for instructions and corrections as well.

Our first lessons for the week were: saying po and opo at all times, saying please and thank you when asking favor and after favor was granted, and of course, first time obedience. You got a couple (if not a lot) of spanking from me in order to learn these things though. Good news is that you are learning fast. Thanks God!

There will be more lessons to come my dear and I will never stop until you learn these things by heart. It is our desire to bring you up the way God wanted you to be. You must fulfill your destiny and in return, it is our commitment to raise you the Godly way. With the Grace of God, it can be done.:)

Love you,
Mommy

August 8, 2009

Could this be your future?

Hello anak,

When I saw this article about the best school in the US that is comparable to an Ivy League, I thought of you. Could this be your future? hehehe. At one point maybe Daddy is thinking along that line. hahaha. Me too. Hehehe But honestly, whatever or wherever your heart leads you, we will support you all the way. A business school would be possible too since you have been practicing to be a networker as early as now. You were already selling Forever Living’s Forever Kids to your playmates, telling them the benefits of this vitamins and to look at you as the proof! Hahahha! Way to go boy! We love you!

And oh, this could also be your future since you have always love golf ever since. Check out what Tiger Woods has done. Making another history. When your time comes, I would love to record all your “golf moments”. Meantime, let’s start looking for kiddie golf set - the real thing and check if the Makati Kiddie Golf course is still operational. I’m excited for you. hahaha! (Stage mom? hehehe)

Mommy and Daddy

July 27, 2009

Thank you Anak!

Dear Son,

Tonight, mommy came from Forever Living’s meeting with the new country managing director, Joel Milag. When I arrived home, I called ate A from the window and tried calling the cellphone which I left with you both, but to no avail. I even knocked on her room’s window a couple of times, but still no one is answering. I was already a bit worried because there were tiny drops of rain already and its really getting late. So I tried knocking on your room’s window thinking that Ate A is sleeping there. To my surprise and after many knock attempts calling Ata A’s name, I heard your voice saying “Mommy? Mommy?”. Then you did an amazing job as I instructed you to get out of your room and go to the sala and open the door for me. You followed even if you were half awake and half asleep. After opening the door for me, you had that cute smile as if telling me that “all is well now mommy, you are inside the house already”.

After few minutes, you went back to your room and continued sleeping. When i checked ate A’s room, there she is deep in dreamland hehehe.

I thank you son for a job well done tonight. I still can’t believe you did it, but you did! So what more can I say? You are simply amazing kid and I love you so much!!”

Much love,
Mommy

July 21, 2009

Learning how to draw, type and online games

Dear Anak,

Last July 18 (Saturday), you surprised me when you showed me your first ever drawing. You just showed it to me and said ” Mommy! Stop light!” wow! That’s a circle and a line connected to it. As if it was not enough, you draw another one which at first left me confused, but then you said ” Mommy, soft ball” Oh yeah, the oblong shape ball! Yehey!! Then, ate A taught you how to draw basket ball. So you learned that one too.:)

Now you are eager to draw airplanes (your all time favorite). I hope I will be able to take a picture of your drawings before you get to delete them hahahha…

And oh, you have also learned to play online games recently. The Cashflow for kids, SmartKid Rich Kid, and Thomas and Friends, Bob the bUilder and Rowee the Racing car.:) Of course there was Barney and Penguin on the sides. I’m amazed at how good you are in connecting puzzles of a train! Bravo!!

You also know how to type your name already. JJJJJJJJJ. That’s what you always do hahehheheheeh. :)

So what more surprises you have for us? We will watch out!

MEantime, enjoy childhood my dear…

Lovelots,.
Mommy

Confuse with words

Dear Baby,

The other night, we were about to go to sleep when I thought of cleaning/deleting messages in my phone. When I finally did it, I sighed ” Haaay salamat nalinis na rin ang messages”. Then with a no-brainer look, you answered me ” Bakit mommy madumi ang mga messages?” hahahahah! Okay. I should have said that the cellphone is now free of messages. Funny kid!

Yesterday, I was out of the house and then you gave me a call informing me that I have to come home because you have running nose and cough. But Ate A said you have slight fever. So in my “panicky” mode, I hurried home forgetting my umbrella at the Cinema and my change from KFC hahaha.. Now I had to be back there and claimed those stuff. I’m still awed at how motherhood had changed me. Now I know why they said that once you are a mother, you would give up everything just to be home to an ailing kid. I’m glad that you are feeling better now. Thank you Lord!:)

And oh, you also called Daddy and “ordered” him to come home because you missed him already. You kept on asking him “Kelan ka mag uwi dito Daddy?”. I pitty dad because I know he wanted to be home with us but he has to find time and resources to do so hehehehe…

Okay, this is all for now. I will update this more soon! Mwah love you!!!

Mommy

July 8, 2009

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June 22, 2009

Our family vacation

Dear Anak,

We had our first family vacation last week and it was full of worthwhile memories. Unexpected conversations and surprises from you:

When we went to Chocolate Hills, you said ” Mommy , di ba dito nagpunta sila Little Einstein?”. I was thinking and laughed out loud when I realized that you thought we were at the Pyramids of Egypt! hahahah!!

While we were on the Loboc River Floating Restaurant, I warning you not to run around or else someone might arrest you. Then with full attention, you looked around the place and said ” Hindi man yan sila police mommy!” Hahahahah!

At the hotel, you played a lot that you had sweat all over your body. I decided to just roll some tissue and place it on your back since I can’t find your cloth diaper (lampin) or towel. When you saw the tissue I placed on your back, you exclaimed (as if complaining) : ” mommy, bakit yan ang ilagay mo sa likod ko, pang-ihi mo man yan?” Hahahahahha!

You enjoyed swimming at the beach and at the pool. Morning till evening, you don’t want to get out of the water anymore. I am looking forward to more trips with you and more memories to be shared with you. We love you dear.

Mommy and Daddy

June 12, 2009

Long time no letter

Dear Anak,

I’m sorry for not writing for sometime now. I have been preoccupied with so many things lately. Rest assured that I am learning to balance everything and I am definitely enjoying it.

Just this week, when you woke up from afternoon nap, you just approached me (seems like you were a sleep walker, but I know you are very much awake already hehehe) and said ” Stress ako Mommy!” Hahahaha. I wonder how a 3 year old be stressed after an afternoon nap and how did you know that thing called STRESS? Hhahahaha. I think you heard it from me and Dad but I didnt expect you’d react to it that way and too soon at that. Oh well, you learn so fast.

Then on to another funny thing today June 12 2009. We were just in the house, relaxing and learning Cash Flow for Kids, your favorite game. As I was bringing you to sleep after feeding, you were sharing a lot of stories. One of it was: “Mommy, magbili tayo ng belt sa Garfield dun sa MOA ha”. I said ok ok, but you didnt stop there. YOu had more ” Bago tayo punta MOA, daan muna tayo sa Burger Machine”. Now that made me panic. Hahaha. Because you are not supposed to love these kind of instant/fast foods. So I said ” Of course not, that’s bad food”. ANd with an as-a-matter-of-fact answer, you said ” Eh di ako na lang magkain, wag ka na magkain.” hahahaha.

Well, I want to tell you that I am proud of you and that I know it was just a joke. You always love to make surprises and you know how I’ve been guarding you against junk foods. One friend who tried giving you chocolates even told me that you didnt get the chocolate and told her ” Magagalit si Mommy”. Hhahaha. Keep up the good work, boy. I love you so much and thank you for all the love and happiness you’ve brought in the family.

Lovelots,
Mommy

May 17, 2009

Obama’s speech at Notre Dame

Filed under: The Obamas

By The Associated Press The Associated Press

Text of President Barack Obama’s commencement address Sunday as the University of Notre Dame in South Bend, Ind., as released before delivery by the White House. The Rev. John Jenkins is the school’s president. The Rev. Theodore Hesburgh is Jenkins’ predecessor.

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Thank you, Father Jenkins, for that generous introduction. You are doing an outstanding job as president of this fine institution, and your continued and courageous commitment to honest, thoughtful dialogue is an inspiration to us all.

Good afternoon, Father Hesburgh, Notre Dame trustees, faculty, family, friends and the class of 2009. I am honored to be here today and grateful to all of you for allowing me to be part of your graduation.

I want to thank you for this honorary degree. I know it has not been without controversy. I don’t know if you’re aware of this, but these honorary degrees are apparently pretty hard to come by. So far I’m only 1 for 2 as president. Father Hesburgh is 150 for 150. I guess that’s better. Father Ted, after the ceremony, maybe you can give me some pointers on how to boost my average.

I also want to congratulate the class of 2009 for all your accomplishments. And since this is Notre Dame, I mean both in the classroom and in the competitive arena. We all know about this university’s proud and storied football team, but I also hear that Notre Dame holds the largest outdoor 5-on-5 basketball tournament in the world — Bookstore Basketball.

Now this excites me. I want to congratulate the winners of this year’s tournament, a team by the name of “Hallelujah Holla Back.” Well done. Though I have to say, I am personally disappointed that the “Barack O’Ballers” didn’t pull it out. Next year, if you need a 6-foot, 2-inch forward with a decent jumper, you know where I live.

Every one of you should be proud of what you have achieved at this institution. One hundred and sixty-three classes of Notre Dame graduates have sat where you are today. Some were here during years that simply rolled into the next without much notice or fanfare — periods of relative peace and prosperity that required little by way of sacrifice or struggle.

You, however, are not getting off that easy. Your class has come of age at a moment of great consequence for our nation and the world — a rare inflection point in history where the size and scope of the challenges before us require that we remake our world to renew its promise; that we align our deepest values and commitments to the demands of a new age. It is a privilege and a responsibility afforded to few generations — and a task that you are now called to fulfill.

This is the generation that must find a path back to prosperity and decide how we respond to a global economy that left millions behind even before this crisis hit — an economy where greed and short-term thinking were too often rewarded at the expense of fairness, and diligence, and an honest day’s work.

We must decide how to save God’s creation from a changing climate that threatens to destroy it. We must seek peace at a time when there are those who will stop at nothing to do us harm, and when weapons in the hands of a few can destroy the many. And we must find a way to reconcile our ever-shrinking world with its ever-growing diversity — diversity of thought, of culture and of belief.

In short, we must find a way to live together as one human family.

It is this last challenge that I’d like to talk about today. For the major threats we face in the 21st century — whether it’s global recession or violent extremism, the spread of nuclear weapons or pandemic disease — do not discriminate. They do not recognize borders. They do not see color. They do not target specific ethnic groups.

Moreover, no one person, or religion, or nation can meet these challenges alone. Our very survival has never required greater cooperation and understanding among all people from all places than at this moment in history.

Unfortunately, finding that common ground — recognizing that our fates are tied up, as Dr. King said, in a “single garment of destiny” — is not easy. Part of the problem, of course, lies in the imperfections of man — our selfishness, our pride, our stubbornness, our acquisitiveness, our insecurities, our egos; all the cruelties large and small that those of us in the Christian tradition understand to be rooted in original sin. We too often seek advantage over others. We cling to outworn prejudice and fear those who are unfamiliar. Too many of us view life only through the lens of immediate self-interest and crass materialism; in which the world is necessarily a zero-sum game. The strong too often dominate the weak, and too many of those with wealth and with power find all manner of justification for their own privilege in the face of poverty and injustice. And so, for all our technology and scientific advances, we see around the globe violence and want and strife that would seem sadly familiar to those in ancient times.

We know these things; and hopefully one of the benefits of the wonderful education you have received is that you have had time to consider these wrongs in the world, and grown determined, each in your own way, to right them. And yet, one of the vexing things for those of us interested in promoting greater understanding and cooperation among people is the discovery that even bringing together persons of good will, men and women of principle and purpose, can be difficult.

The soldier and the lawyer may both love this country with equal passion, and yet reach very different conclusions on the specific steps needed to protect us from harm. The gay activist and the evangelical pastor may both deplore the ravages of HIV/AIDS, but find themselves unable to bridge the cultural divide that might unite their efforts. Those who speak out against stem cell research may be rooted in admirable conviction about the sacredness of life, but so are the parents of a child with juvenile diabetes who are convinced that their son’s or daughter’s hardships can be relieved.

The question, then, is how do we work through these conflicts? Is it possible for us to join hands in common effort? As citizens of a vibrant and varied democracy, how do we engage in vigorous debate? How does each of us remain firm in our principles, and fight for what we consider right, without demonizing those with just as strongly held convictions on the other side?

Nowhere do these questions come up more powerfully than on the issue of abortion.

As I considered the controversy surrounding my visit here, I was reminded of an encounter I had during my Senate campaign, one that I describe in a book I wrote called “The Audacity of Hope.” A few days after I won the Democratic nomination, I received an e-mail from a doctor who told me that while he voted for me in the primary, he had a serious concern that might prevent him from voting for me in the general election. He described himself as a Christian who was strongly pro-life, but that’s not what was preventing him from voting for me.

What bothered the doctor was an entry that my campaign staff had posted on my Web site — an entry that said I would fight “right-wing ideologues who want to take away a woman’s right to choose.” The doctor said that he had assumed I was a reasonable person, but that if I truly believed that every pro-life individual was simply an ideologue who wanted to inflict suffering on women, then I was not very reasonable. He wrote, “I do not ask at this point that you oppose abortion, only that you speak about this issue in fair-minded words.”

Fair-minded words.

After I read the doctor’s letter, I wrote back to him and thanked him. I didn’t change my position, but I did tell my staff to change the words on my Web site. And I said a prayer that night that I might extend the same presumption of good faith to others that the doctor had extended to me. Because when we do that — when we open our hearts and our minds to those who may not think like we do or believe what we do — that’s when we discover at least the possibility of common ground.

That’s when we begin to say, “Maybe we won’t agree on abortion, but we can still agree that this is a heart-wrenching decision for any woman to make, with both moral and spiritual dimensions. So let’s work together to reduce the number of women seeking abortions by reducing unintended pregnancies, and making adoption more available, and providing care and support for women who do carry their child to term. Let’s honor the conscience of those who disagree with abortion, and draft a sensible conscience clause, and make sure that all of our health care policies are grounded in clear ethics and sound science, as well as respect for the equality of women.”

Understand — I do not suggest that the debate surrounding abortion can or should go away. No matter how much we may want to fudge it — indeed, while we know that the views of most Americans on the subject are complex and even contradictory — the fact is that at some level, the views of the two camps are irreconcilable. Each side will continue to make its case to the public with passion and conviction. But surely we can do so without reducing those with differing views to caricature.

Open hearts. Open minds. Fair-minded words.

It’s a way of life that has always been the Notre Dame tradition. Father Hesburgh has long spoken of this institution as both a lighthouse and a crossroads. The lighthouse that stands apart, shining with the wisdom of the Catholic tradition, while the crossroads is where “differences of culture and religion and conviction can coexist with friendship, civility, hospitality and especially love.” And I want to join him and Father Jenkins in saying how inspired I am by the maturity and responsibility with which this class has approached the debate surrounding today’s ceremony.

This tradition of cooperation and understanding is one that I learned in my own life many years ago — also with the help of the Catholic Church.

I was not raised in a particularly religious household, but my mother instilled in me a sense of service and empathy that eventually led me to become a community organizer after I graduated college. A group of Catholic churches in Chicago helped fund an organization known as the Developing Communities Project, and we worked to lift up South Side neighborhoods that had been devastated when the local steel plant closed.

It was quite an eclectic crew. Catholic and Protestant churches. Jewish and African-American organizers. Working-class black and white and Hispanic residents. All of us with different experiences. All of us with different beliefs. But all of us learned to work side by side because all of us saw in these neighborhoods other human beings who needed our help — to find jobs and improve schools. We were bound together in the service of others.

And something else happened during the time I spent in those neighborhoods. Perhaps because the church folks I worked with were so welcoming and understanding; perhaps because they invited me to their services and sang with me from their hymnals; perhaps because I witnessed all of the good works their faith inspired them to perform, I found myself drawn — not just to work with the church, but to be in the church. It was through this service that I was brought to Christ.

At the time, Cardinal Joseph Bernardin was the archbishop of Chicago. For those of you too young to have known him, he was a kind and good and wise man. A saintly man. I can still remember him speaking at one of the first organizing meetings I attended on the South Side. He stood as both a lighthouse and a crossroads — unafraid to speak his mind on moral issues ranging from poverty, AIDS and abortion to the death penalty and nuclear war. And yet, he was congenial and gentle in his persuasion, always trying to bring people together; always trying to find common ground. Just before he died, a reporter asked Cardinal Bernardin about this approach to his ministry. And he said, “You can’t really get on with preaching the Gospel until you’ve touched minds and hearts.”

My heart and mind were touched by the words and deeds of the men and women I worked alongside with in Chicago. And I’d like to think that we touched the hearts and minds of the neighborhood families whose lives we helped change. For this, I believe, is our highest calling.

You are about to enter the next phase of your life at a time of great uncertainty. You will be called upon to help restore a free market that is also fair to all who are willing to work; to seek new sources of energy that can save our planet; to give future generations the same chance that you had to receive an extraordinary education. And whether as a person drawn to public service, or someone who simply insists on being an active citizen, you will be exposed to more opinions and ideas broadcast through more means of communications than have ever existed before. You will hear talking heads scream on cable, read blogs that claim definitive knowledge, and watch politicians pretend to know what they’re talking about. Occasionally, you may also have the great fortune of seeing important issues debated by well-intentioned, brilliant minds. In fact, I suspect that many of you will be among those bright stars.

In this world of competing claims about what is right and what is true, have confidence in the values with which you’ve been raised and educated. Be unafraid to speak your mind when those values are at stake. Hold firm to your faith and allow it to guide you on your journey. Stand as a lighthouse.

But remember too that the ultimate irony of faith is that it necessarily admits doubt. It is the belief in things not seen. It is beyond our capacity as human beings to know with certainty what God has planned for us or what he asks of us, and those of us who believe must trust that his wisdom is greater than our own.

This doubt should not push us away from our faith. But it should humble us. It should temper our passions, and cause us to be wary of self-righteousness. It should compel us to remain open, and curious, and eager to continue the moral and spiritual debate that began for so many of you within the walls of Notre Dame. And within our vast democracy, this doubt should remind us to persuade through reason, through an appeal whenever we can to universal rather than parochial principles, and most of all through an abiding example of good works, charity, kindness and service that moves hearts and minds.

For if there is one law that we can be most certain of, it is the law that binds people of all faiths and no faith together. It is no coincidence that it exists in Christianity and Judaism; in Islam and Hinduism; in Buddhism and humanism. It is, of course, the golden rule — the call to treat one another as we wish to be treated. The call to love. To serve. To do what we can to make a difference in the lives of those with whom we share the same brief moment on this earth.

So many of you at Notre Dame — by the last count, upwards of 80 percent — have lived this law of love through the service you’ve performed at schools and hospitals; international relief agencies and local charities. That is incredibly impressive, and a powerful testament to this institution. Now you must carry the tradition forward. Make it a way of life. Because when you serve, it doesn’t just improve your community, it makes you a part of your community. It breaks down walls. It fosters cooperation. And when that happens — when people set aside their differences to work in common effort toward a common good; when they struggle together, and sacrifice together, and learn from one another — all things are possible.

After all, I stand here today, as president and as an African-American, on the 55th anniversary of the day that the Supreme Court handed down the decision in Brown v. the Board of Education. Brown was of course the first major step in dismantling the separate but equal doctrine, but it would take a number of years and a nationwide movement to fully realize the dream of civil rights for all of God’s children. There were freedom rides and lunch counters and Billy clubs, and there was also a Civil Rights Commission appointed by President Eisenhower. It was the 12 resolutions recommended by this commission that would ultimately become law in the Civil Rights Act of 1964.

There were six members of the commission. It included five whites and one African-American; Democrats and Republicans; two Southern governors, the dean of a Southern law school, a Midwestern university president, and your own Father Ted Hesburgh, president of Notre Dame. They worked for two years, and at times, President Eisenhower had to intervene personally since no hotel or restaurant in the South would serve the black and white members of the commission together. Finally, when they reached an impasse in Louisiana, Father Ted flew them all to Notre Dame’s retreat in Land O’ Lakes, Wis., where they eventually overcame their differences and hammered out a final deal.

Years later, President Eisenhower asked Father Ted how on Earth he was able to broker an agreement between men of such different backgrounds and beliefs. And Father Ted simply said that during their first dinner in Wisconsin, they discovered that they were all fishermen. And so he quickly readied a boat for a twilight trip out on the lake. They fished, and they talked, and they changed the course of history.

I will not pretend that the challenges we face will be easy, or that the answers will come quickly, or that all our differences and divisions will fade happily away. Life is not that simple. It never has been.

But as you leave here today, remember the lessons of Cardinal Bernardin, of Father Hesburgh, of movements for change both large and small. Remember that each of us, endowed with the dignity possessed by all children of God, has the grace to recognize ourselves in one another; to understand that we all seek the same love of family and the same fulfillment of a life well-lived. Remember that in the end, we are all fishermen.

If nothing else, that knowledge should give us faith that through our collective labor, and God’s providence, and our willingness to shoulder each other’s burdens, America will continue on its precious journey towards that more perfect union. Congratulations on your graduation, may God bless you, and may God bless the United States of America.

May 12, 2009

Cockroach management the green way

There is an interesting article on Good Riddance to Roaches where you can check on ways to get rid of cockroaches! Check it out and learn:)

May 11, 2009

Daddy’s turn

Dear Anak,

On May 8, 2009 (Friday), I did the laundry and you asked me what time is it. I asked daddy to teach you how to “read” the clock. I smiled as I heard daddy explaining the short hand (minute hand) and long hand’s function. Cute! What a blissful day! It was 10:40 am. Daddy assisted me in my laundry so we finished sooner than my regular wash day. Yehey!

On Saturday, May 9, 2009 we were scheduled for a family day with the whole officers and staff and their families. At the beach, you and daddy were so engrossed with the world that you both had created hahaha., Dad was pulling you while swimming. You were on top of your newly bought rubber boat (our gift for you on your birthday). KUlang na lang number sa likod ng life jacket mo at paddle, mukhang si 01 ka na talaga! HAHAHAHA! You were on the beach the whole day and I was so glad to see you and dad enjoying each other:)

Until the next family day… oh by the way, today is Monday and you just got sick since yesterday. Haaay.. Get well soon dear.

Love,
Mommy

Why they call it TAPS?

Dear Anak,

Last Friday evening (May 8, 2009) Daddy attended happy hour at FB and so we were left at home the whole day. After dinner, you played with your new wood train given by Mamu Rafi. Then when I checked the time, it was already past 9pm so we need to go to sleep. As always, before sleeping, you have a lot of stories to tell and questions to ask. JUst like after hearing the bell that signals TAPS (or sleeping time) for the camp, you just asked me:” Bakit TAPS ang tawag nila daddy dyan? Eh Torotot yan eh!” HAHAHAHAH! My sleepiness was gone when you asked that. And it seems that you were not satisfied with my laugh yet, when I told you I love you baby , you replied “I love you too Mommy. Ano yung too? Bakit too?” I said too means “also”. And you said , ” I love you three mommy” And we both laugh out loud.

Simple joys. Yet very memorable and worth keeping forever. Thanks for sharing these with me, dear. I love you three Heheheh!

Mommy

May 2, 2009

Conversations

Dear Anak,

You have been answering phone calls recently and people who heard you are so amazed of how well you can get into a conversation. Even Daddy was shocked to hear you on the phone today. I miss you my dear. I have been busy getting myself back with FLP. In time, you will understand everything. For now, enjoy every moment of your childhood.:) I love you!

Mommy

April 28, 2009

You’re a boy

Dear Anak,

Last night, you were already cranky and very sleepy. It was sleeping time — 9pm and I was still hooked with the new telenovela Only You plus the internet on the sides. When I finally turned off the PC and went out to be with you on the other room, I remembered I have to fill up Daddy’s docs which will be needed early morning today. When I told you about it, I was shocked with your response:

“Ay mommy naman, wag na yan gawin. Matulog na tayo”.

Haaaay… what else do you have to day? hehehe..

And oh, did I tell you that you have been calling me “mama” for the past days. When asked why a sudden changed from mommy to mama, you said “para matipid” Hahahahah!

Almost always, regardless of the question, as long as its WHY? you would answer “para matipid” hahahaha!

Love you son
Mama

April 11, 2009

The Sunset date

Dear Anak,

Wow, its been sometime since I haven’t sent you a letter. Last Maundy Thursday (for Catholics), April 9, 2009 Daddy gave us a call while you had your afternoon nap. When I told you about his call, you had a very brilliant smile –a glowing face to be exact. I know you are excited to see him, me too. When you woke up, we went to Nicel and KY at the Training area where you played the Indiana Jones rope with some kids (sons and daughter of Dad’s workmate). You were so excited and thrilled with the idea that you can fly while you hang on to that rope. Oh, you didn’t do it on your own yet, you were cuddled by either the Kuya or the Ate who played with you. Eitherway, your happiness was really onvious with matching wave of hands at me every now and then. I wish I can join you in that swing soon. I’ll have to wear my jogging pants for that. Hahahah!

After Ate and Kuyas left, we decided to explore the seawall. And bingo! There was that beautiful sunset from our vantage point. It was so lovely and so perfect while we seated at the top of those giant rocks beside the seawall. You even loved to hopped from one stone to the other. You made me nervous, huh! While there, we called Tatay whom we haven’t talk for weeks. He missed us, particularly you, so much! I realized that sunsets are gone too fast. I even thought of brining a watch the next time we go sunset viewing. We tried to take a peek at the sunset again yesterday (holy Friday — April 10, 2009) but we were already late and what was left for us to witness were its magnificent reflections. The pinkish effect of the sun’s reflection at the buildings on the opposite side were pretty nice. Today (meaning in a while because its already past 3pm as Im writing this), we will try to catch sunset again.

We also had some lessons yesterday: Waves, sea, birds, sky, rocks, and oh– Jellyfish! You are experiencing these first hand and you are learning really fast. Praise God! We also waited for some people to go ashore after they went on net fishing. Although they haven’t catch fishes that much, we did have fun watching them as they were shouting at each other for coordination so that fishes won’t go out of net. Hahahha. But definitely they had fun– and they already had a previous catch like half a pale of a container. Not bad for amateur fishers who just did it for fun and for dinner, I guess. Hehehe…

This sunset date discovery has been great for you and me and soon, with daddy. We won’t have to go so far just to experience nature and be with our inner selves at the same time. I have also been thinking hard if we can have our 7th year wedding anniversary here hahahaha… It definitely epitomes the sea, air and land concept I want to have. Not to mention it wouldn’t cost much (aside from the cleaning, decoration and installation of big tents! hehehe). Really, I’m serious I might propose this to Dad when he comes home. After all, we still have few years to prepare. Hahhaha!!

O sya, I’m waiting for you to wake up so we can walk to our sunset date again… I love you my dear!

Mommy

March 30, 2009

Leaving computers on overnight?

Check this out and you will never leave your computers on overnight again or you’ll feel guilty hehehe… Here is the news from: YAHOO.

And speaking of computers, Beware of Conficker worm on APRIL 1!.

March 29, 2009

We voted for EARTH!

Yes! Our family voted for Earth! YEHEY!!!

And yes, even at hubby’s workplace, they voted for earth too. We heard announcement made a day before that they will turn-off the electricity in the entire area to join the whole world in voting for earth against global warming.

It feels good, really! I have been voting for earth ever since. In fact, our bill last month was only 200plus pesos! Waaaahhh!!! I didn’t have aircon at home kasi. Electric fan lang. Usually naka off na din pag madaling araw. hehehe.. ;)

Let’s vote for earth everyday!!

A news about the event can be seen here at YAHOO

March 14, 2009

Vote for EARTH on March 28!

VOTE EARTH againts global warming on MARCH 28, 2009 from 8:30pm to 9:30pm, turn off your lights/electricity.

Let’s join the whole world as we make a stand against global warming.

We can make a difference if we ACT now.:)

March 13, 2009

Easy Non toxic Green cleaning

I love Yahoo Green news. I could spend hours of hours reading about very informative articles on toxic free and environment friendly tips. One of the lates discoveries I have is about cleaning tips without using the usual moriatic acid and other toxic materials.

CLICK HERE to find out more!

Ako si Takore by Air Supply

March 9, 2009

We were at the living room when I hummed the visayan version of “I’m a little teapot”.

It goes like this..

Ako si Takore, gamay og dako. Kini ang gunitanan ug kini ang bubuan (i’m not sure of this last word hehhe. its been ages since I last sang this!)
Kung pabokalon, mokolo-kolo. Ihaon mo, ihaon mo ug ibubo.

I then asked our child ” Sinong kumanta nyan?”

His answer made us burst into laughter ” AIR SUPPLY!” Waaahhhhhhhh!!

Earlier that day, a song from the Air Supply was played from a neighbor’s radio. He asked me who sang that “Here I am” song. I said Air supply. What a sharp memory he had! hehehe…

A little later, he said “grrrr…” (imagine an irritated child). I forgot why he felt that way but when asked where he got that expression, I always remember what he said:

“Sa patience mo”, in a very straightforward yet innocent manner.

Hubby and I laughed again. After all, our child meant he got it from me. That’s how I would react when I would tell him that my patience is slowly flying out of the window everytime his tantrums are up. Oh well, children learn much from modelling indeed. ANother strong reason for me to control my emotions and STRETCCCCHED my patience to the nth power. After all, childhood only comes once and I better enjoy it while it last.:)

March 6, 2009

A different kind of aircon?

We were inside Dad’s room and I noticed that the aged aircon produces a different kind of sound. The conversation goes like this:

Me: Dad, ano ba yang aircon nyo. Parang trucktor ang tunog! heheheh. Ay ano nga tawag dun sa pang flat ng mga daan?

Dad: Ah, Pison! hehhe Oo nga.

Me: Hehehe..

Then our little angel interrupted with:

“Parang helicopter man yan mommy!”

HAHAHHAHA!! I think our little angel hears it better. WAAAAAHHHHH!!!!

March 4, 2009

I’m a Green Academic!

I just took this personality test on being Green and I am glad with the result:

GREEN ACADEMIC

You self identify as someone who cares about the health of the Earth, as well as the health of your family. You try to keep informed and learn the ins and outs of issues, so you can make decisions that have the least impact possible. You think its important to exercise cautions in protecting ecosystems and future generations, and take the threat of global warming seriously.

Which celebs share your personality? Al Gore, Laurie David and Edward Norton

Asteeg no? hehehe. You can take the same test here: Whats your Green Personality?

Tayong Dalawa: Poll Question

Filed under: At home...

I’m not yet hooked into this but whenever there is a chance, I do watch it. There are funny lines that keep me entertained.

One was when JR told her mom “tinuruan kasi kami sa PMA pano umilag”. I’m not sure if that was the exact line but he said it after his mom told him “buti di ka natamaan/nabaril ni Ingrid”. When this was shown, I was with an alumni and he reacted “hindi kami tinuruan nyan ah! hahahaha”.

I also find it funny how Gina Pareno acts “promdi” or “jologs” when she is dressed up or when she is at the department store, more so when she is at the country club. Her role is so perfect for her.

I also like the twist of events for now. I’m not sure if I would still like it later, though.

How about you, I’m curious on what would you do if there is a Marlyn in your husband’s life?:)

Thought of you..

Dear Anak,

It’s been a loooong time since Dad and I had our massage. Atlas! Tonight we were able to have it at our favorite massage clinic. While there, I was thinking of you. The past days of our mother and son adventures made me realized how I love you so much and I am indeed blessed to have a child like you. Thank you for your unconditional love and tenderness. You keep me at pace with the life I really wanted– to be with Dad and you always.

I even told your dad how I love you and how I thought of you while having a massage. Sometimes I am considering of getting a househelp but then, I already enjoyed our privacy so much — just us — our family. I do welcome visitors from time to time but other than that, I prefer to be alone with dad and you.

It has been sometime since we studied your Flags of the World lessons and you did great, really. You could memorize more or less 20 flags and I wonder if you could have done more only if we studied it daily. Sorry for the backlogs. Babawi na lang ako uli. Always remember that you are so much loved by daddy and mommy and we are proud of you.

Thumbs up and salute to a wonder kid like you! And oh.. some milestones..

1.) Few days ago, when we forgot to pray before the car starts, you would remind us “pray muna tayo daddy!”. Thank you for learning and practicing my dear.

2.) Last night, you were able to sleep through the night without a pee in the morning! Yehey! Although you did pee on the beddings while lying on my stomach hehehhe. YOu said “mommy, ihi na ako” haaay… Bata ka nga talaga! hehehe

3.) I think we can live without diapers now. Hahahaha! That means diaper budget goes to your savings account! yipeee!!

4.) While Mamu U was counting her bills, I overheard you told her “Mamu, penge savings!” hahaha! And BINGO! Without a word, she gave you Php1,000 bill and said “Balik mo sa akin ang Php500 ha.” But since I only have Php300 bills, she took it. Hehehe. That means, you have another Php700 that will go to your savings! Ang galing mo maghanap ng capital, anak! waaaahhhhh

5.) Latest flags you know: Solomon Islands, Trinidad and Tobago and Congo! Let’s learn more so that when you can join Eat BUlaga’s contest for young boys, your talent would be identification of the flags of the world. HAHAHA!

6.) At Dad’s alma mater, you let him run after you at the B.Field. hehehee.. You enjoyed that place so much that you had a wide smile when we took a picture of you using the “shako” (tama ba spelling?:)) and beside two cadets who were part of the teleserye Tayong Dalawa. Speaking of this teleserye, I will write a separate post about it.:)

That’s all I can remember for now. Take care! Love you!

Mommy

What’s wasting energy in your home right now?

If you are thinking of ways to conserve energy at home, check this out:

What’s wasting energy in your home right now?

March 1, 2009

Biking with Daddy

February 27, 2009

Dear Anak,

Just for the record, around early evening of Feb 27, 2009 you had a biking date with daddy inside the compound. Daddy with his more than 10 year old but still durable mountain bike and you with your blue bike. What a view! I was overjoyed looking at you both. I hope you will have more time like that soon and hopefully, I’ll have the camera with me. hehehe…

I love you..

Mommy

February 24, 2009

Long time no see

Its been a looong while. A lot has happened and too many stories to tell. Just want to share with you this beautiful video. May you be blessed!.

Special mention to Cee and Hanna who visited this blog even if I haven’t been here for sometime. Thanks again sistahs!!

I hope to write longer soon.

January 19, 2009

Obama’s inauguration

Filed under: At home...

I just love this man. And I am looking forward what he can do at the White House.

Here are some of his speeches/news about him recently:

Renew the promise

Why its January 20?

It’s an opportunity

I will write longer soon..

January 3, 2009

Happy New Year!

Filed under: At home...

It is a gift and a privilege to have witnessed the coming of a new year. New adventures and lessons in life.

I remember one sharing of a lady who used to play Lotto (or sweepstakes or slot machines
in the US). She said she was ashamed when the Pastor asked the congregation on who among them gambles. She looked around and noticed nobody is raising a hand and right there and then, she felt like a melted candle. Now, realizin that gambling is not of God, she doesn’t gamble anymore and lived a righteous life where she works hard and God blesses the works of her hands.

What an amazing testimony of how God heals and touches lives. I wish you and your family bountiful harvest for 2009 and good health always. To God be the glory for this year and beyond!

December 27, 2008

Laki!

Dear Anak,

Sorry for not writing for sometime. Very busy this holidays but you never fail to amaze me. Last night (Dec 27,2008) we had dinner at Ate Vicky’s place. I never intended to eat dinner actually but since they invited us and there are too many food on the table, we accepted it. We were just there waiting for our “minatamis na saging” to be done. Then, as we begun to eat it, we went outside where we seated at the bench and in a while, Bolax followed us with his platter of hipon and manok from Ate Vicky’s table. Bolax started his never ending anecdotes and this time shared about a classmate whom he introduced to his wife. The classmate mistakenly identified his wife as the woman whom the classmate met few years ago when they were still at school Hahahaha! As usual, his sense of humor never dies. hehehe.

As I was busy listening to him, I was also feeding you with our minatamis na saging.You were craving for the “sabaw” as you have said it. Hehe. Then, as I fed you with a portion of the saging, I was shocked because you never chewed it at all. You swallowed it straight, and then paused for a second and said “LAKI!” with that face that looks like a survivor from choking– but with a smile and “pasimple” na style. HAHAHHAH! When you grow up and read this, I will demonstrate how you did it and how you made us laugh out loud that I felt my stomach ache because of too much laughter. Heheheh

After dinner, we headed to the dining room where we saw Manager and his family. I cannot recognized Paul (his son) anymore as he has grown really BIG this time. He doesn’t look like a Grade 1 student really. Hehehhe. You both enjoyed each other playing hide and seek and from time to time, wrestling?? and shouting too! HAHAHHAA. I was amazed as how you get along well with each other. While you were playing with him, I was talking to Manager’s wife and we had a good chit-chat. You were interrupting from time to time which made her remarks ” Ang bibo mo talaga!”.

I am proud of you son. Thank you for making us happy and for giving others the joy that is in you. Indeed, GLORY TO THE CHRIST in You. Alleluiah!

Loving you always,
Mommy

PS First time kita nakitang napakadungis kanina… hehehhee.. Sayang di kita na picturan hehehe… You were playing with Kuya Mars kanina eh. Hehehe.

Stay healthy this holidays!

With the season to be merry and eat (A LOT for most of us), we can still maintain that figure and avoid those killer diseases if we will watch what we put inside our mouth. As someone once said, what we eat is what we are. Here is a page from YAHOO where you can find interesting topics on organic living and even food gift suggestions that are quick to prepare.

We wish you healthy holidays!

Get that sexy Abs now!

Filed under: Stay HEALTHY!

I’m excited about this exercise where you can get a flat ab! Ahuh?

I have been looking forward to my 2nd-year highschool waistline again! Hahaha.. it’s 24-inches!! My classmate even envied me then because hers was already 26 or 27 ! hahaha! Ok, ok so muh about it. I just want to have that flat abs back !:)

Sound of Music

Filed under: At home...

I never knew what Sound of Music is until I saw a VCD on sale few years ago. When I viewed it, I was hooked to it that I reviewed it many times already. I just loved the lyrics of the song especially the one that says “somewhere in my years of childhood, I MUST HAVE DONE SOMETHING GOOD!”.. Im not sure if I get the lyrics right but I really am looking for the full lyrics and title of that song. Not to mention the song “when the bee stings,… when I’m feeling sad/bad…I simply remember … and it makes me feel so good…” (again, di ko sure ang lyrics). One thing for sure though. SOUND OF MUSIC is a movie that taught about love, life and joy. It is beautiful beyond time!

So when I read from YAHOO that the Von Trapps are reunited, I was so excited and shocked because its the first time I learned that this movie is based from a real-life story! Amazing!:)

How do you solve a problem like Maria? Oh wellcheck the VAN TROPP HISTORY for more details.

Have a nice day!

December 26, 2008

Christmas with the Obamas

Filed under: The Obamas

Wish ko lang I was one of the “family” of the marines and navy personnel at Hawaii. Hehehe. Why? So I could have said Hi to Barrack Obama too! hehehe.. (ang babaw no?hehehe) But kidding aside, I wish I can meet this man. I am looking forward to read his book too. I forgot to buy it the last time I saw it at NBC. I think he really has something to say and do.

What a nice feeling to be born in this era where histories are taking place. Manny Pacquiao is one. And more so that he is Pinoy! Yehey! Then there is Barrack and I think many others whom I forget or have not yet known.

ANyway, here is a peek on the Obama’s Christmas in Hawaii.

Thank You and Happy Holidays!

Filed under: At home...

Dear readers,

Thank you so much for dropping by. From our family to yours, we wish you a blessed and merry Christmas and a prosperous year ahead! See you around!

December 24, 2008

The HUNKS: Barrack and his speechwriter

Filed under: The Obamas

Oh my! A day before christmas and Yahoo’s news is filled with Obama’s photos in his vacation at Hawaii.He is a certified Hunk! Check this out: Shirtless Obama. Well, I am posting this because come to think of it, he is one of the busiest person in the world, yet he manage to maintain a 4-pack abs with his 45mins work out 6-times a week! WOW! Congratulations, Mr President! And oh, you might be interested to check his college photos too.

But let me tell you something. If there will be photo contest on OBAMA-LOOK-ALIKE, I would surely win. I know someone who looks like him. No kidding. I would have to ask his permission first if I can post his photos or submit it to TIME magazine perhaps? Hhaha.. Just kidding.

Now, about his writer. I have read the news few days ago that his chief writer has the same age as mine! Oh my! oh my! Speechwriter Jon Favreau is only 27-years old and he is making history, boy! Read more here

So that’s it! Have a merry christmas everyone!

December 23, 2008

The tree is up!

Filed under: At home...

Thanks Rachel for sharing my excitement about the native tree I have this year. I think I will have it as my yearly theme from now onwards. I would love to make something out of nothing hahahah! I was not able to place the coconuts as a based although I might do it today. Oh gosh! This will be the 4th time I’ll re arrange my tree. HAHA! First I just put it there on top of my “parse-made” floormat (looks like small bamboo sticks woven together as a mat). Then, I decided to cover it with my unused green curtain (YES you read it right. CURTAIN as a cover.) No one noticed it since I didn’t hang that curtain yet at the living room, unless one would take a peek at our bedroom hahahhaa! Then I moved it again on top of our monoblock chair where it looks better now still with the green curtain cover.

It’s so funny because hubby was counting our chairs this morning and realized one is missing. I laugh out loud as I told him its under the tree, darling! hahhahaa. I hope to post a picture soon!






















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